Curly to Straight Hair routine 2020

Hey Curly girls !

Everyday curls CAN Turn into straight hair

I’ve always had a somewhat complicated relationship with my hair. Nevertheless, we’ve worked things out at the end of the day — I love my hair.

Yes ! You can have the best of both worlds . Just a few simple steps and a whole lotta patience, you can get your beautiful main straight.

Curly hair can be easy to style. Natural curls doesn’t require you to wake up early to start your hair routine.

When I was in high school, I spent a countless number of hours in the mirror, constantly watching Youtubers while trying to learn the best method of straightening my hair.

My mom used to straighten it for me, but it was high time I learned how to do this for myself.

After all, I’m the one who will be involved in this hair situation for the rest of my life. I might as well start now.

Here are the items you will need to get your straight hair game under way

  1. Flat iron
  2. Pantene heat Primer
  3. Maracon oil
  4. Demi brush
  5. Blow dryer
  6. Small tooth comb

The Process

First you want to start the straightening process with clean hair. After putting in this much work, you need to keep it like this (straight) for at least 5-7 days, or until your next wash.

After washing and conditioning your hair, blow-drying your hair first is where you should begin

To avoid damaging your hair again and again with a straightener, it’s a good idea to take out the major kinks with a blow dryer before moving onto a flat iron.

START by using concentrator attachment along with paddle brush. This will assist in getting the hair as straight a possible.

This process consumes less time and it will save you time later on. 

  • Invest in a good blow-dryer with a concentrator attachment.  Paired with a paddle brush  or will make your life much easier.
  • Lift a small section of your hair with your brush from the underside and apply heat from above, sandwiching the hair between the two tools.
  • Move them down the length of your hair slowly with the hair inside of the brush bristles and watch the kinks disappear.
  • Repeat this process to remove most of the frizz and curl from your hair before you start straightening.

Special Note:

It’s a good idea to allow your hair to air-dry so you’re not using unnecessary extra heat.

Tip to get rid of small stand up flyaway hair strands

For at-home straightening I read somewhere that you can use an aerosol hairspray and a pair of panty hose ton straighten flyaways!

.Spray the hairspray on the hair and then stretch the pantyhose and press them on the area to lay those stubborn hairs down.


There you have it. The process I use to straighten my curly mane.

There are so many hair styles you cam make with straight hair. Utilize the staright hair while you have it. Something as simple as a bun looks so different staright than it does curly.

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My Outfit

Sleepwear dress – Walmart

There’s definitely a learning curve to get your hair just right—especially for girls with naturally spiral curls.

Practice makes perfect. Don’t give up. Keep trying, but make sure you Don’t put the flat iron too hot or you’ll mess up your natural curls.

How to spot a FAKE and TOXIC friend

Hey Luva’s, hope you all have been doing well. I’m posting a different kind of video, it’s TRUE but funny.

All of us have encountered fake friends once in a while, right? Of course you have. We are all pretty much the same, but different lives.

I’m being so real and so transparent here. I’m not a huge rambler so this one should get you good.

Let’s click on the video and see just how I’m handling out life lessons today, Ohhhhkkkkuurrrr.

How to Slay Baby Hair Edges

Hey Luva’s, Yes sister curly girls – – we love to swoop and lay our baby hair edges don’t we? Yes, we do.

Whether you are Black, Hispanic, Mixed, or otherwise, we ALL love a little baby hair action. It’s super funny how we live in the circle of life. Our parents slayed their baby hairs back in the day and now we are doing the exact same thing, but probably with different or similar hair products.

The Queen Bey is quick to show us that she enjoys a little, “swoop and loop,” action as well.

If you are into the “baby hair” thing then you will enjoy our post.

Let’s SLAY Curly Girls

1. Style your hair
The first step in learning how to get the best out of your baby hair regime is to begin with styling your hair in the style of the day. The style that would accentuate your baby hairs will be the styles with your hair pulled away from your face.

Styles such as:

  • Low or high bun
  • Half up half down
  • Pulled back with a headband

2. Choose your favorite hair
Everybody prefers different types of gel. I have my preference, as you will see in the video below. See my favorite gel by clicking here.

3. The perfect baby hair tools
Due to the fact that baby hairs are so very fine pieces of hair, you should use a brush that will allow you control over your edges. I recommend using a toothbrush and a regular hair brush for the process.

4. Don’t over use the gel
Be sure not to go crazy using the hair gel. Only use just the right amount to cover your edges. If you accidentally use too much, it may take too long to dry. Next, follow the technique in the video to get the best results. Don’t get frustrated if you don’t get the right swoop.


5. Don’t forget a very important step
Get a silk scarf and wrap your edges until the gel dries. This last step is an important step to finalizing the process. You will be happy you did !

How to Save Your Curls Overnight

Hey Luv’s

I’ve missed you guys as usual. I’ve been so busy graduating from high school and getting on with my new life. I hope you guys are having a wonderful life as well.

Please look at my video below to find out how to save your curls overnight and when you wake up in the morning, your hair will be ready to go.

5 Reasons You Must Invest in a Satin Bonnet

Do you want to wake up in the morning with the perfect hair? In order to be FREE of tangles and dryness, you will have to forgo the not so cuteness of “The Bonnet” Once you discover how tame your hair will be by sleeping on satin, you will jump on the satin cap bandwagon.

1. Healthier Hair

NO MORE SPLIT ENDS will be the result of sleeping with a satin cap. It will help protect your hair from the dryness caused by friction that can be caused by sleeping on a cotton pillow case. Wearing a cap helps reduce breakage, hair thinning, and tangles too.

2. Hydrated Hair

Sleeping on a cotton pillowcase is known to cause dryness. The Satin cap will help keep the hydration in your hair. Say YES to hair hydration.

3. Better Looking Hair

A satin cap will help keep the shape of your curls without causing more kinks and bumps. It also keeps the frizz down to a minimum.

4. No More Headaches

By wearing a satin cap, you don’t have to worry about always keeping your hair in a tight slicked down ponytail. The satin ca will help your hair stay in place.

5. Ready to Go Hair

Sleeping on satin can assist in retaining your intended hair style. No more waking up early so you’ll have time to process and prepare your hair. Simply do the work the night before, put on your satin cap and get some extra snooze time. I know I do zzzzzzzzzzz.

Product Used in this video

  • Hair Tie
  • Satin Cap/Bonnet

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Tutorial Lip Exfoliating using your Toothbrush

Hey Curly Girls,

Today’s tutorial is “How to Exfoliate using your toothbrush.”  This is much better and safer than the so called “Kylie Jenner Lip challenge.” Check out my supple lips on this video.  I’m using a soft bristle/wet toothbrush for this tutorial.  After I exfoliate for about 1 minute then I will show you how to apply one of my favorite lip balms (eos Visibly Soft Lip Balm -Vanilla Mint), then we will complete the process with a lip liner and your favorite color lip stick.

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I have several different lip exfoliating tips for you so stay tuned to all of my tutorials so you can learn the “Wendi Motte Lip Challenge” – – it’s safe and you won’t have to post video’s with swollen/red lips. LOL

BTW: I love Kylie Jenner and her lips are nice too.

Items Used in this video

Embrace Your Lips by Exfoliating (Tweet This)
  1.  Colgate Extra Clean Toothbrush, Full Head, Soft, 6 Count
  2. eos Visibly Soft Lip Balm -Vanilla Mint
  3. NYX Mechanical Lip Pencil, Natural
  4. Jordana Retractable Easy Lip Liner 4 Coco Loco
  5. Revlon Super Lustrous Creme Lipstick, Black Cherry 477, 0.15 Ounce

Flexi Rod Hair Set

Hi Curly Girls,

Have you ever heard the old cliché “the grass is greener on the other side?”  Yep, girls with straight tend to be quite very into the girls with natural curls.  Some of the compliments I receive are actually from girls with naturally curly hair.   Most of them use blow dryers and flat irons because they may be completely over the NOT so tamed curl thing that the best alternative is to just straighten it.

When I receive compliments about my hair, questions usually follow in regards to  styling tips.  So, I’m almost led to believe that they really like their curly hair, but they are just not sure how deal, with it.  Trust me, I know first hand.    So, Curly girls should keep an open mind when receiving compliments from non-curly girls because you never know what hair type they were born with and if they have learned how to master the curl.

Learn to Master the Curl (TWEET THIS)

Today we are going to learn how to do a hair in Diane Twist-Flex Rods, Purple, 7/8″set.   I will show you and explain step by step what I do to get my curls so loose and bouncy.  I know we already have lots of curls, but sometimes your curls can seem a little unmanageable and you can tame them by using Flexi Rods.  Twist-Flex Rods helps give you loose and bouncy curls, whether your hair is straight or curly.  The Twist-Flex Rods should work with all hair types.  If your hair isn’t really curly and it’s straight you can probably try to add some mousse or another agent that will make the curls last a little longer.  Oh yeah, I just thought about a suggestion — you can spray your hair with a little hair spritzer or hair spray when it’s dry to help the curls stay a little bit longer.

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Products used in this video:

  1. Diane Men’s Styling Brush, 100% Boar Bristles
  2. Diane Twist-Flex Rods, Purple, 7/8″
  3. Not Your Mothers Beach Babe Texturizing Hair Cream 4oz (2 Pack)
  4. Softee Protein Styling Gel Super Freeze, 8 Oz
  5. Palmer’s Coconut Oil Formula Replenishing Hair Milk 8.5oz


Follow the instructions in the video and you will be amazed at how wonderful and illustrious your curls will be.  People are surely to ask you what did you do to your hair today.


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Hey Loves,

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The GRWM series showcases some of my makeup routines.  I hope this serve as inspiration to you.

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How I cleared my skin

Just when your appearance seems to be one of the most important attributes of your body— acne begins.  Although some teens seem unfazed by acne, others can be deeply affected.

For most teenagers; however, this especially visible skin problem can be upsetting.  To me, I tried to block it out of my head.  Yes, I saw it there, but I tried to NOT see it there.  Does that make sense?

This was a crucial time in my life.  On top of school, drama, life, etc – – here comes acne to ruin my life AGAIN !

Click the video below to find out the steps I took to help clear up my skin.  It didn’t happen overnight, but eventually, my skin got back to normal.

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Curly Hair Routine

Hey Curly Girls,

I know it’s been a while, but I’ve been busy with life and sometimes forget to make my video’s.   It’s not really a good excuse, but I’m telling you the honest truth. Life gets in the way and I get side tracked.

Help me out and send me some LOVE to help motivate me to keep going.

One way to send me LOVE is to go to my YOUTUBE channel and Watch and LIKE my videos.  I love comments too so be sure to leave a comment.

HERE IT IS ~  My Curly Hair Routine.  I hope you enjoy watching

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